
The Overlooked Trauma of Medical Illness — and Why Gender Matters
When we speak of trauma, a nephrology clinic is rarely the first image that comes to mind. Yet it should be.
A diagnosis of chronic kidney disease (CKD), the initiation of dialysis, or the experience of kidney failure can function as a profound biographical rupture — not only disrupting somatic integrity but also destabilizing psychological, social, and existential frameworks. In this sense, medical illness is not merely a biological event; it is also a potentially traumatic one. And in nephrology, where patients confront bodily invasion, loss of autonomy, and the erosion of long-term certainty, it often is.
Importantly, as with many types of trauma, the psychological manifestations of CKD are gendered — emerging differently across men and women in ways that affect diagnosis, treatment engagement, and outcomes.
CKD as a Traumatic Stressor
Chronic kidney disease represents more than a clinical classification; it is a sustained threat to one’s sense of bodily safety and existential coherence. The illness trajectory typically involves invasive procedures (e.g., fistula creation, central venous catheters), the loss of agency over one’s physiology, and an ambiguous prognosis — all of which align with the core diagnostic criteria for trauma exposure as defined in the DSM-5 (APA, 2013).
A landmark study by Kimmel et al. (2015) demonstrated that approximately one-third of dialysis patients exhibit symptoms consistent with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), including intrusive re-experiencing, physiological hyperarousal, and avoidance of healthcare contexts. Moreover, post-transplant patients may develop chronic anticipatory anxiety, guilt related to organ donation, and hypervigilance over graft survival — responses indicative of persistent psychological dysregulation.
Despite these findings, trauma-informed care remains largely absent from the standard nephrology treatment model.
Women with CKD: Somatization, Stigma, and Systemic Bias
Women with CKD frequently report somatic correlates of psychological distress, such as fatigue, sleep disturbances, and diffuse pain, even during earlier stages of renal dysfunction (Ricardo et al., 2019). These symptoms, though reflective of neuroendocrine stress responses, are frequently minimized as “non-specific” or misattributed to affective disorders, particularly when laboratory markers of disease severity remain subclinical.
Stigmatization compounds this issue. Women may internalize shame linked to visible treatment sequelae — such as edema, fistula appearance, or weight fluctuations — which can contribute to body image dissatisfaction, depressive symptoms, and social withdrawal (Cukor et al., 2007).
Further, the reproductive implications of CKD — including infertility, high-risk pregnancy, and premature menopause — deepen the psychological burden. These intersecting losses (biological, social, and identity-based) are often unspoken, rendering the female experience of CKD one of invisible grief.
Research also reveals gender disparities in access to care. Women are less likely to be referred for kidney transplantation and more likely to delay dialysis initiation, frequently due to caregiving responsibilities or internalized societal expectations (Neugarten et al., 2000). These delays may not only affect prognosis but also intensify psychological demoralization.
Men with CKD: Suppressed Affect and Misrecognized Trauma
In contrast, men with CKD often present with externalizing behaviors — treatment nonadherence, substance misuse, or withdrawal — that are misinterpreted as oppositional or apathetic. However, these behaviors frequently represent maladaptive coping mechanisms in the face of unprocessed trauma.
Men, particularly in Western contexts, may suppress emotional expression due to gender norms that equate vulnerability with weakness (Tolin & Foa, 2006). This suppressive style may obscure underlying affective disorders, including masked depression, which is often underdiagnosed in male populations.
Moreover, men face accelerated CKD progression and higher cardiovascular mortality (Carrero et al., 2018). These biomedical realities, compounded by cultural constructs of masculinity tied to independence and productivity, can provoke profound existential distress — albeit often unspoken.
The Dialysis Chair as a Site of Psychological Vulnerability
Hemodialysis is not only physiologically demanding but also a psychologically destabilizing experience. Patients spend extended hours in a liminal state — tethered to machines, witnessing fellow patients’ complications, and confronting the chronicity of their own condition.
Psychological sequelae include:
- Medical PTSD, characterized by anticipatory anxiety, conditioned fear responses (e.g., panic at machine sounds), and treatment avoidance (Kimmel et al., 2015).
- Major depressive disorder, which affects over 20% of dialysis patients, with a higher prevalence among women (Cukor et al., 2007).
- Loss of self-determination, particularly salient for younger men, whose identity may hinge on physical agency and social contribution.
Despite these well-documented impacts, routine psychosocial screening is not a standard part of dialysis care, reflecting a critical gap in holistic treatment delivery.
Clinical Implications: Toward Gender-Informed, Trauma-Aware Nephrology
- Implement Routine Screening for Trauma Symptoms
Assessment protocols should include queries about fear, helplessness, and emotional dysregulation, beginning at diagnosis and extending through dialysis and transplant transitions. - Design Interventions Responsive to Gendered Experiences
- For women: Facilitate open discussions around reproductive concerns, somatic distress, and appearance-related stigma. Psychoeducational and peer-led groups can offer powerful normalization and validation.
- For men: Use non-pathologizing, autonomy-respecting approaches such as motivational interviewing or digital CBT tools. Normalize emotional expression through peer support or embedded mental health services.
- Reframe CKD as a Psychosocial Disruption
Acknowledge that patients may be mourning a prior identity — a version of themselves tied to health, spontaneity, or reproductive possibility. Invite space for grief, while fostering post-traumatic growth.
The Kidney May Be Silent. The Trauma Isn’t.
Nephrologists often refer to CKD as a “silent disease.” But the silence is deceptive. The psychological reverberations of a kidney diagnosis echo loudly — in patients’ dreams, behaviors, and unspoken fears.
By integrating gender-informed and trauma-responsive frameworks into kidney care, we can treat not only the organ but the whole person. Because when the diagnosis wounds the self, patients need more than erythropoietin and dialysis — they need to be heard, held, and understood.
References
- American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed.).
- Carrero, J. J., Hecking, M., Chesnaye, N. C., & Jager, K. J. (2018). Sex and gender disparities in the epidemiology and outcomes of chronic kidney disease. Nature Reviews Nephrology, 14(3), 151–164.
- Cukor, D., Coplan, J., Brown, C., et al. (2007). Depression and anxiety in urban hemodialysis patients. Clinical Journal of the American Society of Nephrology, 2(3), 484–490.
- Kimmel, P. L., Cohen, S. D., & Peterson, R. A. (2015). Depression in patients with chronic renal disease: The role of dialysis modality and age. Seminars in Dialysis, 18(2), 115–123.
- Neugarten, J., Acharya, A., & Silbiger, S. R. (2000). Effect of gender on the progression of nondiabetic renal disease: A meta-analysis. Journal of the American Society of Nephrology, 11(2), 319–329.
- Ricardo, A. C., Yang, W., Lora, C. M., et al. (2019). Limited health literacy is associated with low glomerular filtration in the Chronic Renal Insufficiency Cohort (CRIC) study. Clinical Nephrology, 91(3), 147–156.
- Tolin, D. F., & Foa, E. B. (2006). Sex differences in trauma and PTSD. Psychological Bulletin, 132(6), 959–992.
About the Author
Dr Gavril Hercz
Dr. Gavril Hercz is a nephrologist at Humber River Hospital and Associate Professor of Medicine, University of Toronto. He completed his psychoanalytic training at the Toronto Psychoanalytic Institute and is a member of the Canadian Psychoanalytic Society. His major area of interest is the impact of physical illness on patients, families, and caregivers.
medical illness is not merely a biological event; it is also a potentially traumatic one. And in nephrology, where patients confront bodily invasion, loss of autonomy, and the erosion of long-term certainty, it often is.